Breaking Off Relations with Toxic Family Members – It’s Not Just Good; It’s Necessary

Today’s guest post is from Matt Lundquist, LCSW, MSEd. Matt talks about how hard it can be to break off relationships with family members who don’t have our best interests in mind. After all, we break up with partners who are abusive (and that can be hard in and of itself). As someone who has …

A Year of Loss

My dad’s gone. I’ve been trying to process this now for almost three weeks, and it still doesn’t quite make sense to me. I’m not sure how the world can exist without my dad in it. No one prepares you for how utterly weird it is to exist in a world when both your parents …

woman looking at sea while sitting on beach

Maman Est Morte

In the words of Meursault from the first line of Albert Camus’ L’Etranger, “Aujourd’hui, maman est morte.” Talk about beginning in media res. But it’s a line I’ve been thinking of now for almost two weeks, because for two weeks, my mother has been…no longer part of the physical world. My mom died. Her body …